Quotes of Anna Quindlen - somelinesforyou

“ There's a certain kind of conversation you have from time to time at parties in New York about a new book. The word "banal" sometimes rears its by-now banal head; you say "underedited," I say "derivative." The conversation goes around and around various literary criticisms, and by the time it moves on one thing is clear: No one read the book; we just read the reviews. ”

- Anna Quindlen

“ A finished person is a boring person. ”

- Anna Quindlen

“ I would be the most content if my children grew up to be the kind of people who think decorating consists mostly of building enough bookshelves. ”

- Anna Quindlen

“ I think that anyone who comes upon a Nautilus machine suddenly will agree with me that its prototype was clearly invented at some time in history when torture was considered a reasonable alternative to diplomacy. ”

- Anna Quindlen

“ I can't think of anything to write about except families. They are a metaphor for every other part of society. ”

- Anna Quindlen

“ O ye of little faith, who believe that somehow the birth of Christ is dependent upon acknowledgment in a circular from OfficeMax! ”

- Anna Quindlen

“ Or what about the statue in California currently said to be crying bloody tears? Why worry about the alleged weeping of a plaster effigy when so many actual human beings have reason to cry? ”

- Anna Quindlen

“ The world is full of women blindsided by the unceasing demands of motherhood, still flabbergasted by how a job can be terrific and torturous. ”

- Anna Quindlen

“ The thing that is really hard, and really amazing, is giving up on being perfect and beginning the work of becoming yourself. ”

- Anna Quindlen

“ If your success is not on your own terms, if it looks good to the world but does not feel good in your heart, it is not success at all. ”

- Anna Quindlen

“ Books are the plane, and the train, and the road. They are the destination, and the journey. They are home. ”

- Anna Quindlen

“ All parents should be aware that when they mock or curse gay people, they may be mocking or cursing their own child. ”

- Anna Quindlen

“ The thing that is really hard, and really amazing, is giving up on being perfect and beginning the work of becoming yourself. ”

- Anna Quindlen

“ In books I have traveled, not only to other worlds, but into my own. I learned who I was and who I wanted to be, what I might aspire to, and what I might dare to dream about my world and myself. More powerfully and persuasively than from the "shalt nots" of the Ten Commandments, I learned the difference between good and evil, right and wrong. A Wrinkle in Time described that evil, that wrong, existing in a different dimension from our own. But I felt that I, too, existed much of the time in a different dimension from everyone else I knew. There was waking, and there was sleeping. And then there were books, a kind of parallel universe in which anything might happen and frequently did, a universe in which I might be a newcomer but was never really a stranger. My real, true world. My perfect island. ”

- Anna Quindlen

“ The thing about old friends is not that they love you, but that they know you. They remember that disastrous New Year's Eve when you mixed White Russians and champagne, and how you wore that red maternity dress until everyone was sick of seeing the blaze of it in the office, and the uncomfortable couch in your first apartment and the smoky stove in your beach rental. They look at you and don't really think you look older because they've grown old along with you, and, like the faded paint in a beloved room, they're used to the look. And then one of them is gone, and you've lost a chunk of yourself. The stories of the terrorist attacks of 2001, the tsunami, the Japanese earthquake always used numbers, the deaths of thousands a measure of how great the disaster. Catastrophe is numerical. Loss is singular, one beloved at a time. ”

- Anna Quindlen

“ Here is one of the worst things about having someone you love die: It happens again every single morning. ”

- Anna Quindlen

“ Every story has already been told. Once you've read Anna Karenina, Bleak House, The Sound and the Fury, To Kill a Mockingbird and A Wrinkle in Time, you understand that there is really no reason to ever write another novel. Except that each writer brings to the table, if she will let herself, something that no one else in the history of time has ever had." [Commencement Speech; Mount Holyoke College, May 23, 1999] ”

- Anna Quindlen

“ The beginning and the end are never really the journey of discovery for me. It is the middle that remains a puzzle until well into the writing. That's how life is most of the time, isn't it? You know where you are and where you hope to wind up. It's the getting there that's challenging. ”

- Anna Quindlen

“ If your success is not on your own terms, if it looks good to the world but does not feel good in your heart, it is not success at all. ”

- Anna Quindlen

“ Seek respect, not attention. It lasts longer. ”

- Anna Quindlen

“ The biggest mistake I made is the one that most of us make while doing this. I did not live in the moment enough. This is particularly clear now that the moment is gone, captured only in photographs. There is one picture of the three on them sitting in the grass on a quilt in the shadow of the swing set on a summer day, ages 6, 4, and 1. And I wish I could remember what we ate, and what we talked about, and how they sounded, and how they looked when they slept that night. I wish I had not been in a hurry to get on to the next things: dinner, bath, book, bed. I wish I had treasured the doing a little more and the getting it done a little less. ”

- Anna Quindlen

“ Books are the plane, and the train, and the road. They are the destination, and the journey. They are home. ”

- Anna Quindlen

“ I would be most content if my children grew up to be the kind of people who think decorating consists mostly of building enough bookshelves. ”

- Anna Quindlen

“ In books I have traveled, not only to other worlds, but into my own. ”

- Anna Quindlen

“ How is it that, a full two centuries after Jane Austen finished her manuscript, we come to the world of Pride and Prejudice and find ourselves transcending customs, strictures, time, mores, to arrive at a place that educates, amuses, and enthralls us? It is a miracle. We read in bed because reading is halfway between life and dreaming, our own consciousness in someone else's mind. ”

- Anna Quindlen

“ those of us who read because we love it more than anything, who feel about bookstores the way some people feel about jewelers... ”

- Anna Quindlen

“ In books I have traveled, not only to other worlds, but into my own. I learned who I was and who I wanted to be, what I might aspire to, and what I might dare to dream about my world and myself. More powerfully and persuasively than from the "shalt nots" of the Ten Commandments, I learned the difference between good and evil, right and wrong. A Wrinkle in Time described that evil, that wrong, existing in a different dimension from our own. But I felt that I, too, existed much of the time in a different dimension from everyone else I knew. There was waking, and there was sleeping. And then there were books, a kind of parallel universe in which anything might happen and frequently did, a universe in which I might be a newcomer but was never really a stranger. My real, true world. My perfect island. ”

- Anna Quindlen

“ Books are the plane, and the train, and the road. They are the destination, and the journey. They are home. ”

- Anna Quindlen

“ I would be most content if my children grew up to be the kind of people who think decorating consists mostly of building enough bookshelves. ”

- Anna Quindlen

“ In books I have traveled, not only to other worlds, but into my own. ”

- Anna Quindlen
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